Depression... Rejection... Love... Care... All these seem to be synonyms some times !!!

Today I saw a girl crying badly holding a greeting card. First I just thought to pass by but i was not able to resist myself from going to her, seeing her crying so badly. I asked her whats the issue, first she hesitated but after I asked few times...she told me a usual story "break up". I was like.. Its okay.. everyone goes through this phase of life. But after that what she told me was quite different. She told me unrealistic thing, i was not able to believe that. It was not a first break up for her, still she was too depressed about the fact. She said.. What is the problem with me? Till today, I gave 100% in my relationships, but again... That means the problem is with me and the problem is that I go and come out from a relationship because I see that person so  happy, first with me and than without me. But all that matters for me is their happiness. I be with them because I cant act rude and then when start to give 100%, they start acting rude. why?
Its with every relationship in my life, with my family or friends or boy friend. Before me I always think of them, then why cant they think of me when I need them.. why??

She kept asking me why? and I was really speechless. When I came to know the reason of crying is break up, I  really thought to comfort her with all those silly jokes.. arey mil jaega koi aur.. dikhne me bhi acha nai hai ye toh.. enjoy your life ..u don't need a man in your life and bla bla... !!! But none of these proved useful after listening to her. Because her concern was not break up, instead she was tired of proving herself..her love.. She was tired of searching for her happiness in someone else happiness and yes off course she was too depressed because of Rejection. Its a huge word "Rejection".

Sometimes the care the love ultimately becomes a reason of being depressed. Suddenly, all negative thoughts regarding my life, running in my mind came to an end, just thinking about her situation. We all think that we are in such big problems but out there, some one is there who is suffering more than us, instead of having all the leisure in their life.Instead of having a lot of friends. Seriously, I don't have any positive thoughts today. Sometimes we just need someone to listen us, this is what I did with that girl. Today I will just say one thing.. Please don't leave a person who loves you this much just because of any stupid or lame reasons. None of the positive thoughts inspire them then, they just need you that time.

Just Let it Go... Let it Go !!!

Once there was this girl, who always kept running behind her love without realizing that it was never meant for her. She was mad for him and he kept taking her love for granted. And there was this another boy who really loved that girl but she never realized his love for her.
I know this is every other girl's(/boy's) story.....
Same goes with ones career, many of us opt a wrong career choice. Sometimes because of peer pressure or just for the sake of our parents. Reason can be anything but you will surely loose your identity. Never let anyone to do that.

At some point of time, we all come on the same page. Sometimes we get trapped in the situations which are irresistible. We ourselves create such situations with which we cant deal.We keep running behind things that we cannot get. We want only those things which are near to impossible. Although, these things are not always right, still just for our internal satisfaction we run behind them. But we never get this satisfaction.

What if we stop running behind them? What if we just focus on things which are actually right for us to do? What if we just be happy with the things which are meant for us?

Just imagine.. how great would be our life... if we come out of the cage which we have made ourselves and explore this beautiful world. So, Just let go things which are not meant for you..And try to identify the ones which are for you..just for you  !!!