DEPRESSION... Disease which is slowly destroying are society... Make People Aware regarding one of the most dangerous Ailment .... !!!

Felt really bad after listening Pratyusha Banerjee's Suicide. May her soul rest in peace.

 

Its sad that instead of understanding the root cause, people are making different stories. But who knows what is the actual truth. Who knows what she was going through. Its not easy to commit suicide and bring your existence to end. Any individual will never take this step until they completely lose hope and they don't have anyone to share their worries, their problems.

 

Slowly the person goes in DEPRESSION, without even realizing it.

 

Nobody runs from their responsibilities, everyone have problems in their lives with which they deal. But nobody understands when it is transformed into depression, anxiety. And sadly in our society its taken as depression is not considered as a disease. Even the person in depression will not accept the fact just because of our lame society concerns.

The National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) statistics reveal that a total of 1,35,445 people committed suicide in 2012 which amounts to an average of 15 suicides an hour or 371 suicides daily. Maharashtra ranked second on the suicide index with Tamil Nadu topping it.

And I guess, till then its increasing only day by day as we don't come across each and every suicide.

 

 

Its high time now, our society needs to be aware of this illness. Depression requires medical as well as personal attention as any other physical ailment does. It is just a mental illness which can be treated. Don't treat the person as if he is insane. Our society tends to believe if a person consults a doctor for depression then the person is just insane. No, he is not. He is just going through a mental illness like any other physical illness. If unrecognized, this also keep getting worse over time.

Stop interpreting it as selfishness or weakness or attention-seeking. Its an illness, help your close ones from getting into it. Make them believe you are there for them and will always be.

Its our responsibility to create awareness regarding depression. Nobody alone can do it. We have to be together and create awareness to help our people. So that nobody takes this ailment as craziness.

 

Lets come together and create awareness regarding these serious issues which are damaging our society internally. 

 Kill this Disease Instead of Killing Yourself...

 

 

Depression... Rejection... Love... Care... All these seem to be synonyms some times !!!

Today I saw a girl crying badly holding a greeting card. First I just thought to pass by but i was not able to resist myself from going to her, seeing her crying so badly. I asked her whats the issue, first she hesitated but after I asked few times...she told me a usual story "break up". I was like.. Its okay.. everyone goes through this phase of life. But after that what she told me was quite different. She told me unrealistic thing, i was not able to believe that. It was not a first break up for her, still she was too depressed about the fact. She said.. What is the problem with me? Till today, I gave 100% in my relationships, but again... That means the problem is with me and the problem is that I go and come out from a relationship because I see that person so  happy, first with me and than without me. But all that matters for me is their happiness. I be with them because I cant act rude and then when start to give 100%, they start acting rude. why?
Its with every relationship in my life, with my family or friends or boy friend. Before me I always think of them, then why cant they think of me when I need them.. why??

She kept asking me why? and I was really speechless. When I came to know the reason of crying is break up, I  really thought to comfort her with all those silly jokes.. arey mil jaega koi aur.. dikhne me bhi acha nai hai ye toh.. enjoy your life ..u don't need a man in your life and bla bla... !!! But none of these proved useful after listening to her. Because her concern was not break up, instead she was tired of proving herself..her love.. She was tired of searching for her happiness in someone else happiness and yes off course she was too depressed because of Rejection. Its a huge word "Rejection".

Sometimes the care the love ultimately becomes a reason of being depressed. Suddenly, all negative thoughts regarding my life, running in my mind came to an end, just thinking about her situation. We all think that we are in such big problems but out there, some one is there who is suffering more than us, instead of having all the leisure in their life.Instead of having a lot of friends. Seriously, I don't have any positive thoughts today. Sometimes we just need someone to listen us, this is what I did with that girl. Today I will just say one thing.. Please don't leave a person who loves you this much just because of any stupid or lame reasons. None of the positive thoughts inspire them then, they just need you that time.

Just Let it Go... Let it Go !!!

Once there was this girl, who always kept running behind her love without realizing that it was never meant for her. She was mad for him and he kept taking her love for granted. And there was this another boy who really loved that girl but she never realized his love for her.
I know this is every other girl's(/boy's) story.....
Same goes with ones career, many of us opt a wrong career choice. Sometimes because of peer pressure or just for the sake of our parents. Reason can be anything but you will surely loose your identity. Never let anyone to do that.

At some point of time, we all come on the same page. Sometimes we get trapped in the situations which are irresistible. We ourselves create such situations with which we cant deal.We keep running behind things that we cannot get. We want only those things which are near to impossible. Although, these things are not always right, still just for our internal satisfaction we run behind them. But we never get this satisfaction.

What if we stop running behind them? What if we just focus on things which are actually right for us to do? What if we just be happy with the things which are meant for us?

Just imagine.. how great would be our life... if we come out of the cage which we have made ourselves and explore this beautiful world. So, Just let go things which are not meant for you..And try to identify the ones which are for you..just for you  !!!

Inevitable Changes ... !!!

Yes, changes are necessary for life... but only positive changes... and that too which are positive according to us !!!
Everyone has their own views which are positive according to them. Nobody is ready to accept others or adjust according to others. But it hurts... right??? The one who was head over heels in love with you and now he just take you for granted and for girls.. ultimately it turns into possessiveness, fear of being dumped again, losing one more relationship...!!!
But guys will be guys, they never understand this... And girls ultimately and easily fall for others at this point of time, even though she still loves him, cares for him... But she don't want to get hurt anymore...
Yes, that's right.. She is tired of doing things now.. making up for her mistakes... begging for being loved... but some guys really don't deserve committed girls and that's really true. At last, some guys only want one thing ... you know what I mean..
So, girls its high time... Instead of falling for others, you should fall for yourself now... Give time to yourself.. try loosing your temper and stop blaming yourself for everything. Be like a butterfly, who catches everyone's attention.. "Beautiful to see yet hard to catch :) ".
Let guys go mad about you again...don't let them take you for granted.
The same goes for guys also. Its not that every guy we come around is same. There are guys waiting for committed girls. There are guys waiting for that change in their life. All you need to do is WAIT for right time and people. Till that time, just keep focusing on you.

Changes will keep happening.. sometimes positive, sometimes negative. Just don't let those changes ruin you.  Don't let them overcome real you. Just be happy regardless of any changes. 
The ones meant for you will be there for you despite of the Inevitable Changes... !!!

Focus on you first and everything will ultimately fall on its place :)